On Days Like These
On Days Like These
Have an Online Affair:
Are you looking to have an online Affair? It’s not rocket science but you do need to think through the implications. Some friends may become jealous and envious. Why, because they don’t have the strength of character to do this themselves? Will you tell your friends and family, and can you cope with their reaction if you do?
What if your rich benefactor wants an intimate relationship and offers you an allowance? A high number of sugar babies are made up of university students looking to offset student debt. They do sugar dating because the additional finance helps with college or university education.
Attractive outgoing bubbly sugar babies and toyboys are wanted to date older wealthy male/female companions. Many consider having a sugar baby Affair with an older successful man/woman. They see it as the answer to their financial problems.
Are you considered attractive by your peers but in debt? Alternatively are you a beautiful female short of money. Are you in a job with little chance of promotion, and have a life with few luxuries?
Maybe you’re an aspiring model, actress, beautiful person but a single mom or entrepreneur? Would you like to have an arrangement with a Sugar daddy/momma? Do you need financial help to meet bills and fulfill your dreams and aspirations?
Seeking a Casual Affair:
Would you like to be taken care of and treated like a sugar baby princess? Are you tired of dating single men who are keen but don’t treat you well? Consider becoming a Sugar baby because it presents many opportunities!
Rich successful people generally don’t have time for traditional dating. Reason being, because it can be slow and cumbersome and there is no guarantee of a good outcome. If you meet the right sugar daddy and things go well you may be able to negotiate a monthly allowance.
Are you prepared if you find he is married and being unfaithful but wants to see you? Infidelity is common amongst sugar daddies who are looking for short term affairs with sugar babies but many don’t want commitment. Can you handle that, and are you prepared to go along with that to get the sugar dating lifestyle?
The appeal of an attractive young woman or toyboy half their age (or more) can be the icing on the cake for sugar daddies/mommas. This is because successful mature wealthy Sugar daddy’s/momma’s love beautiful things.
In return for financing the relationship they get an attractive companion on their arm. You get a comfortable sugar lifestyle, so you expect cash, gifts, holidays, upscale dining out etc.
Where the relationship is intimate and exclusive, possibly the provision of a monthly allowance is the ideal goal of a sugar baby but not guaranteed.
Sugar Baby Love:
Most sugar babies don’t talk about becoming a mistress and having an affair with a rich married man. However we prefer to be honest and upfront so sugar babies can make an informed decision.
It’s really just common sense when you’re seeking an arrangement. So if both parties want something, a negotiation is inevitable. But both parties need to come to an amicable understanding.
But If either party feels they are not getting what they want from the relationship, it will break down. This would happen in the same way a conventional relationship would. There are no set rules, but a sugar baby has to understand she may have to become a mistress.
A good starting point is; Do you find this Sugar daddy or Sugar momma physically attractive? Are you at ease around them, tactile? Is their personality in tune with yours because you will be spending precious time with them?
If you are attracted to them but don’t have good verbal chemistry/banter, you may find it difficult as the relationship progresses.
Sugar Baby Affairs:
Successful rich men know the value of coin, and they will expect something in return for that monthly allowance. They usually want an intimate affair. If you both understand the basis of your relationship and accept it wholeheartedly then this is a starting point.
There are no hard and fast rules, and like any conventional relationship you have to communicate a lot. There has to be a degree of trust even if he is being unfaithful due to being married and dating. If you can close your eyes to his infidelity you could be on the road to a sugar dating lifestyle.
If you both agree to be exclusive on Sugarcoupling and you both want the option of removing your profiles from search results, you can do this . It will give your relationship a chance to blossom so there is less temptation.
Both parties can see that the other is ‘ Unavailable ‘ and so can build trust. If things don’t work out, you can remain friends and put your profile status back to being ‘ Available ‘.
During your ‘ Unavailable ‘ period, any other members who have shown interest in your profile and were interested, can select the ‘ Message me when this user becomes available ‘ link. They will then be notified as soon as you change your profile to ‘ Available ‘ so they can contact you.
So how do you negotiate your way through this potentially difficult and un-chartered minefield? Proceed with caution, and be fully aware of what you are entering in to?
How do you stay safe – and are they ID verified? How to gain a monthly allowance without jerking anyone about. Be cautious, don’t drink too much and treat it like a business while you can.
If you fall for your wealthy mentor and enter the realms of a conventional relationship things may change. The difference being, if you split you more than likely lose that monthly allowance.